Janet is a 53 year old woman from Norwalk.
She wanted to share her story of survival.
This is Janet’s story, in her own words.
When I was 6 and my brother was 3 my mother
left... She returned when I was 11 years old. She
convinced me to run away and live with her when
I was 13. I did because I didn’t want to go to school.
That was a big mistake.My mother ran a whorehouse
and after I lived with her for 6 months she told
me that I had to go work. I said that I would go out
and find a job but my mother said, ‘No, I have a job
for you here.To make a long story short, when I was
13 years old my mother taught me how to turn tricks
and to become a prostitute.
When I was 17 I ran away to New York
and lived inManhattan. I lived there
doing the only thing that I knew how to
do—turn tricks and hustle. I made a lot of
money. I had a pimp for 12 years.He constantly
beat me and I always had a broken
nose and black eyes. I didn’t know
any better. It was a terrible, terrible life.
In 1999, I was involved in an accident with a subway
train in New York. I can’t discuss it due to a pending
lawsuit. I lost both of my legs and was in Goldwater
Hospital on Roosevelt Island for two years. It was a
wonderful place. I received therapy and was taught
how to live without legs.
I believe everything happens for a reason. If I hadn’t
lost my legs I would have still been out there hustling
and I know I would have ended up dead.There is no
doubt in my mind about that.
I have two daughters here and a son in Istanbul,
Turkey. I have four grandchildren.My daughters
wanted me to come back to Norwalk so that’s how
I ended up here. I knew a lot of people here.My ex’s
mother was very good to me. I’ve known her since
I was 18 and she was much better to me than my
own mother. She wanted me to move in with her but
I couldn’t do that so I found my own apartment.
I needed to have someone live with me to help me
but when it was discovered that I was not living
alone I was evicted.
I knew about the Norwalk Emergency
Shelter because I would go for meals there
and I would get food from the food pantry.
I saw all of the good work the staff of
the Shelter did and does.They look for
people to help and they found me. I really
needed help. If it wasn’t for the Norwalk
Emergency Shelter, I know I’d be dead.
How could I earn money for food and a place to live?
The Shelter and its staff, especially Sharon, Frank
and Carole really helped me.They care about people
and they cared about me. I lived at the Shelter and I
ate all of my meals there.They even got me a wheel
chair with a motor.
Now I share an apartment in Norwalk but I still use
lots of the service at the Shelter. I love this place.
It saved my life and I thank God for the Norwalk
Emergency Shelter everyday. I have a dream to have
my own wheel chair assessable apartment someday
but for now life is good.